Sunday, May 18, 2008

Why I want to marry a Gold Digger

I have become renowned for being Single unfortunately. Most of my peers have been married for years and have several children. In 5 years I will be the same age as my grand mother when she first achieved that title. As you can imagine from friends and family a like I am constantly getting grilled and lectured over my solitary status. I have countless scouts that out of love and concern, diligently look underneath every rock and tree for a help mate to get me hitched to. Every time I speak somewhere in my introduction the host makes sure to comment, “By the way Ladies he is Single!!!” Followed by the token pity howls, given by those that were let in the room for free. I used to like it in fact. I used to imagine myself as some dangerously handsome tycoon in “Time” magazine as one of the worlds most eligible bachelors. I had a bit of a swagger because of it, a smirk on my face and a pep in my step. Then I turned 30. As I tend to do, I did a little soul searching and realized that I was lonely. A quote from David O McKay kept haunting me. “No success can compensate for failure in the home.” I was a different type of homeless, one with just as few legitimate excuses as the other type bumming for change at a freeway off ramp. Around then I realized it was time to adjust my priorities and date with marriage in mind. Not to ask some one on a date because I planned on marrying them, but to date someone to look for the possibility of marriage with them. This type of dating to me is like a very long job interview and can be exponentially more mentally taxing. Desperately trying to find out if my date has an axe murderer penned up inside of her and knowing she is wondering the same thing about me. That’s usually when I think myself into a panic and start acting weird in consequence to trying so hard to act normal.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-UyfUTacziI



In the midst of all of this however I have learned a lot about what matters most to me in finding a wife. There are many qualities of course that are an absolute must. Spirituality, mutual physical attraction, the ability to communicate effectively, wants children, etc. but there is one thing that I have come to appreciate as much or more than all the others. I don’t know how to label this quality except to say that it is the quality to appreciate the qualities in me.

There are a lot of things us quirky humans find endearing, that everyone else could care less about. The way we mispronounce a word, how we slurp our soup or snort when we laugh. Those types of things I feel are important. However it is not what causes love, it’s a by product of love.

People fall in love for too many reasons to count. Usually it is a combination of reasons. But I want someone to fall in love with me because I am a man of ability and achievement. Not because I have a lot of friends (not saying I do) but for the reason people want to befriend me, not because I have tons of money (not saying I do) but because I have the ability to earn a ton of money. Not because of my accomplishments but because I am a man of accomplishment. In fact I wouldn’t want to marry anyone if they loved me and these were not at least some of the reasons why.



There is a phrase with a stigma attached I find interesting, “Gold Digger”. Now I obviously don’t like the stereotypical Gold digger. The phrase “Gold Digger” has come to mean in our society a man or a woman who marries for money, usually as an easy road to material gain with out any effort or productivity of their own. To reap what you have not sown is no better than a thief, mooch or a looter. However I couldn’t think of a better phrase to describe what I desire in an Eternal Companion. I want someone to love me for the Gold that is with in me and is willing to dig with me to extract it. I heard someone once say, “Speak to the king within the man and within the man the king will appear.”

Now obviously for this to work whether we are married or single we need to work hard every day to make the most of ourselves. It means that I must strive to spend my time laboring to be worthy of such a women. Not only to be a man of ability but to the have the ability to see the women of ability. I believe like attracts like which means we tend to gravitate to those like us. Like a tuning fork will resonate with keys, chords and crystals of the same pitch, the proper person will resonate with who you are. So if this all true, if what we want is the very best shouldn’t we try to be the very best? In fact isn’t that the only way we can possibly accomplish that.

I think all of us myself included spend much more time trying to find the right one, when we should be trying to become the right one. If you desire someone that is physically fit, the best way to accomplish that is to be physically fit yourself. If you want someone to be spiritually sound, the good news is there are plenty of them out there. However because they are spiritually sound they are only looking for people who are spiritually sound. A good exercise to do is to take those lists we used to make in our adolescence of what we wanted in a spouse and up date them and then rate our selves 1-10 on how we are doing in those categories ourselves. It is an eye opener. I realized the reason I wasn’t married wasn’t because the type of person I was looking for doesn’t exist but that the type of person I wanted wouldn’t be interested in me.

Doing this has given me more purpose in my personal development. It has given me a stronger “why” for the things I do every day. It has also helped me to weigh in opportunity cost on the decisions I make and how it affects the person I am and the people I attract. It really has in my biased opinion made me a better person. Or in other words has increased the Gold mine inside of me.

For those already married similar rules I think would apply. I have noticed that some remain frustrated at their spouse for various character flaws that they have. What they usually don’t understand is those same character flaws are in them too. In fact that is usually at least partially what attracted them to each other. If we want things to change in our relationship, we can not do it by taking a way the agency of another. We can only change things by changing ourselves. As Jim Rohn says, “for things to change, you have to change.” It is the “if it is to be it’s up to me” philosophy. Only by working on ourselves can we guarantee results, because then if nothing else we have bettered all our relationships because we bring a better us to the table. Then by so doing we liberate others to do the same, we provide an example to others to follow suit. Then together progression becomes easier and happens and a higher rate.

This life is a beautiful life. A life that is all the more beautiful when we find someone of like mind, heart and spirit to share it with. Genesis is right, “It is not good that man, (or woman) should be alone.” Certainly the synergy, that comes from a marriage of two equally yoked people yields limitless potential. I was asked to give a Eulogy a few years ago. I went to interview the wife of the man I was eulogizing at his bed side hours before he passed away. She told me plenty of stories and facts about his life but one thing she said in passing stuck out to me the most. She said “We ran a great race”. How fortunate to be able to say that. To run hand in hand to create a better world, to extract and have extracted the best that is with in us that can only be accessed by the companionship of someone. Someone, who sees the very best in you.
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+AM+ said...

this was much better than my last attempt to blog about not being married because of my being a 'SCRUB' from tlc.

Anonymous said...

Wow. So eerie. You just knew. Very chilling.

Anonymous said...

I agree very chilling but if he knew why didn't he bolt up the doggy door, get a sufficient alarm system, and call 911 when she mysteriously showed up? Very sad case though. RIP

Anonymous said...

Indeed freaky... Red flags all over and still ignored them.

Anonymous said...

If Jodi was stalking you, why did Detective Flores state in court that YOU called her just as often as she called you and that YOU invited her over to your house for sex? There is a lot of evidence that Jodi has been dishonest (like the forged documents) but I actually do believe that you psychologically abused her by using her for sex and manipulated her. Calling a woman a "slut" and a whore" and making her wear that distasteful shirt reading "Travis Alexander's" is not only offensive, but deeply hypocritical of you as a Morman. If she did kill you, it was wrong of her but I wouldn't be surprised if it was because she was driven crazy by the pain you caused her. I'm sorry that you died in such a horrific manner, but I still find your actions wrong. You may have been a victim, but you certainly weren't an "innocent victim".

bunnygurl said...

Travis Alexander: "I realized the reason I wasn’t married wasn’t because the type of person I was looking for doesn’t exist but that the type of person I wanted wouldn’t be interested in me."

Well they probably would not be that into you if you're going to make them wear that shirt!

Anonymous said...

Whose to say she didn't have that shirt made up herself. She lied about everything else and he isn't here anymore to defend himself.

Anonymous said...

Jodi arias seems crazy,how can you guys believe her?hell,she most likely made that shirt herself and wore it.she wanted to be known as being Travis's and didn't want to see Travis with anyone else,and there is no way that Jodi killed Travis as a way of "self defense".If Travis was trying to kill her wouldn't she have stab wounds,bruises,or something along the lines of that?and the "self defense" claim makes no sense to me also because of how many times she changed her story and the fact that she took pictures of the crime.If this was self defense she'd be petrified of what she had done but she wasn't and still isn't.

Anonymous said...

Why r u talking to him as if he is alive...u r a sick person, u know nothing about what truely happened. Get a life!!

Anonymous said...

What is so creepy??? If u guys knew how to read...what he meant by wondering if ur date is an axe murderer is. We all think that when we start dating someone new cuz we know nothing about them yet...he wasnt even talking about that ugly jodi bitch....i doubt she was on his mind like that.

Anonymous said...

There are no signs that she was abused...in every picture she looks like a happy skank....if he was so abusive to her why did she keep coming back for more and she was the one taking the pics with the camera...the only thing i am curious about is how n the hell he got taken down by this bitch????? U would think after the first stab he would have knocked her out cold.

Anonymous said...

This is so odd and upsetting to be reading what this man wrote while he was alive and is now gone and yet we can read and comment on it in real time. Very strange and sad

Anonymous said...

Travis Alexander: "I realized the reason I wasn’t married wasn’t because the type of person I was looking for doesn’t exist but that the type of person I wanted wouldn’t be interested in me."

This statement right here says it all. He hadn't met the woman he wanted to marry yet. He was stating that he wasn't interested in the women he was attracting. Jodi read this and it must of infuriated her. He had already broken up with her but she was very much reading his blog and commenting on it.

Anonymous said...

To the Anonymous who asked why others are talking to him as if he's alive...I've noticed it's just what people do, as if they believe the soul of the person is still around and witnessing the continued lives of everyone else. Also, people feel consoled to believe that the one who has died has a continued consciousness.

I think Jodi needs to be held accountable for the taking of another's life, but I'm not without sympathy for her pain and anguish, and what he seemed to enjoy putting her through.

It's not that uncommon, that a guy who is an indulgent hypocrit will tell all of his friends one thing, such as, "She's stalking me, won't leave me alone," and then turn around and call her to see whatever he can get out of her...in this case, sex.

It bothers me to no end, though, that Travis is referred to as a "Devout Mormon". I'm friends with devout Mormons, and acting on horniness with premarital relations, pornographic messages and using and abusing someone else's favor does not make a clean conscience. Travis was a poor example of Mormonism.

Anonymous said...

I understand on good authority....she had the shirt made...and she will try any way to avoid death. This includes re-killing an already dead man by murdering his character too. Think people....this guy wanted to be a motivational Speaker....why take a chance of ruining his livelyhood by doing what she is fighting to show. True words....nothing worse than a woman scorned....if she can stab him 27 times and shoot him....cant she make up lies. Use your brain's ....please.

Anonymous said...

You r def right that he should have not continued seeing this girl especially after he knew he didnt want to be with her and especially after knowing she is on the psych side...for instance slashing of the tires. Like most men they turn weak n helpless when boobs are out n skank are ready to have sex with them...unfortunately this weakness cost him his life....jodi will get off easy in this world as we have seen once before "casey anthony" but the price she is going to have to pay in death for eternity is i think all the punishment needed.

Anonymous said...

I wonder if this blog will be read in the courtroom?

Anonymous said...

Hey, Anonymous who has it "on good authority", I too am apt to believe she made that shirt as she wears it with a smile, and that she has lied incessantly, but the emails, texts and voicemails don't lie. Police have all of Travis' contacts he initiated with her, the good and the bad. They have evidence that he was playfully crass, and yet extremely abusive as he tormented her and played on her weaknesses, until it drove her over the edge.
I think the Prosecution has it right that she went there that night with an ultimatum to either fulfill his original promise to be with her and cherish her as he did in the beginning, and to stop confusing her and using her, giving her false hope, or that he was going to pay for his lies and abuse...with his life, that she had it and felt justified in liberating herself and regaining her power by taking away his.
So, I can't go with the "moment of passion" since there was enough forethought to steal her grandparents gun a week before and bring it with her that night with a knife, and she needs a life sentence, at least, because she was smart enough to know the consequence of murder, even before it happened, but especially because of that snide remark she made that no jury would convict her.

Travis is gone. He can't use and abuse another woman again. Jodi shouldn't have the freedom to kill again.

Anonymous said...

I agree you don't even know what really happened. And being Mormon myself I know that not everyone is perfect and it's not our place to judge anyone in any cerci stance.

Anonymous said...

I'm not here to judge. If you believe in any form of Christianity, in Romans it states we ALL fall short of the Glory of God. With that said, Travis did not deserve to be brutally murdered. What I find most odd about this case though is that he invites her into is bed a. knowing she's a stalker and b. while planning a trip with some other girl in a few days (even though as just friends) was more suitable to take for a public appearance. He did seem to objectify Jodi as a sex object. If Jodi had her wits about her she would have seen the signs as clear as day and moved on to someone who treated her well. but clearly we are dealing with two people with issues.

Anonymous said...

I wish I would've known Jodi back then, because I would've tried to restrain her and convince that...He's just not worth it!!!

Anonymous said...

When this story first broke years ago, even through all of the developments, I gave Jodi extreme benefit of the doubt, aka the presumption of innocence, but now that the trial is underway, the evidence is showing me that this is not a case of self-defense, as the victim was the only one doing the defending.

She was willing to take a life. She must be held accountable. I hope this AZ jury has at least a modicum of intelligence, unlike the "Pinellas 12".

Anonymous said...

Lol..wow

Anonymous said...

What an incredible blog! Such an intelligent man! I wonder what amazing things he would have done for this world if he were still alive!

God be with you Travis! You were such a great influence on others, and that will live on through the lives of the people you touched as well as mine!

RIP

Mandy said...

The only thing I feel is appropriate to say here is this..

RIP Travis. You did not deserve the ending you received. You were a young guy who seemed to love life and have your struggles with it.... just like so many of us. It's too bad you didn't get the chance to see it to the end. However, it's good to see you didn't get married and have a bunch of kids far too young becuase everyone else is doing so, then wonder where in the heck your life went and why you jumped into things so fast. Instead you went where life took you and did your best to make it the best. You went sky diving, skiing, rode dirt bikes, partied, owned a beautiful home, had great friends, traveled to beautiful places and enjoyed the feeling of being even more then financially stable. I am happy you had those things. I am sorry the next step, the step I am sure you would have found was stolen from you.


To the rest of you, who want to question Travis's life like you knew him personally and scold him for his treatment of Jodi when he was BRUTALLY murdered by her, take it some where else. All of you classless, disgusting people who are defending Jodi. You have no shame, no humility, no decency, no class, no reason, no common sense, not even two brain cells to rub together. Just like Jodi. There are plenty of places to discuss the case and even stick up for that soulless wacko. Please find them and go there.

It makes me sick that even in death this man could not find peace from Jodi. Carbon copies of her are walking free instead of being locked up right along with her.

Anonymous said...

Mandy, Travis really sucked at being Mormon.

Pat Dowling said...

Travis suffered from the fatal disease of hubris...he couldn't see behind her mask of normalcy to the demon residing within. If only he had listened to his friends...

Anonymous said...

Pat, Travis didn't listen to his friends because he wanted his play time with Jodi. He painted her as a "stalker", but never let on that he was contacting her and leading her on. He was playing a dangerous game, one he could not sustain. Obviously his Bishop and friends from the church didn't know that he was screwing around with her. He wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Some might think God punished him. Others who are more rational would just say, he crossed the wrong woman. "Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned."

Now, it's Jodi's turn to be punished.

Anonymous said...

U suck at being who u are...how dare u talk about a man who was brutally murdered...he was a single guy n liked sex...take ur mindless self somewhere else....just by ur statement shows you suck at life.

Anonymous said...

To January 9, 2012 11:28 Mandy, No one is scolding him. People just find it odd that he invites a woman over that he claims was a stalker and previously slashed his tires two times.

Anonymous said...

How the heck do you know he made her wear that shirt? She was obsessed with him and that could have been just her doing it. She is one sick person.

Anonymous said...

Does anyone here really believe they're going to influence away the opinions of others?

The prosecution is making a big deal out of labeling this guy a strict Mormon. His friends and church (and possibly family) only saw that side of him. It's obviously disgusting to a lot of people that he's being portrayed as such an angel.

Just be honest. Yes, he wasn't chaste and was breaking a very fundamental virtue in his religion, but what's worse is that he was lying about it. He was telling everyone, "This chic is stalking me," and then he'd turn around and text her in an inviting way. He was keeping this blog about "Being Better" without any intention of doing so. He wasn't intent on leading a pious lifestyle. He was just fooling everyone while he kept his dirty little secrets.

What I don't get is that after his death, many people are just as blind to his indiscretions and hypocrisy as they were when he was alive. Yeah, he liked sex...and using profanity and sexual expressions, being psychologiclaly abusive, living a double life and lying to everyone, and who knows what else.

I agree. Jodi definitely screwed herself up with this guy and committed a heinous, egregious act which she should pay for and regret for the rest of her life. She exacted revenge on Travis instead of just leaving the situation and waiting for his next girlfriend (or wife) to do it. Imagine what the next woman would have thought if they found his texts and emails depicting his hidden life.

Travis was as arrogant as Jodi is now, both thinking that they could get away with what they were doing and did.

Anonymous said...

Jesus...for the last time people...she wasn't "obsessed" with him. HE WAS LEADING HER ON...keeping her at arm's length, right where he wanted her. He was telling his friends that she was obsessed, just what he wanted them to believe, but was texting and emailing her telling her what he wanted to do with her the next time he saw her and keeping her on a psychological leash.

Keep calling her "obsessed" just like the Prosecution says, and every time you do, there will be someone to rebut that he was "abusive" just like the Defense says.

Anonymous said...

Wow. You can tell the difference between someone here who is just expressing their opinion vs. telling others what to do when they don't agree with them.

For everyone who is telling others to get lost, you should take that advice yourself.

Anonymous said...

RIP Travis. I pray justice will be served, & Jodi Arias will never step foot outside prison walls ever again.

Anonymous said...

First of all the remark about the t-shirt...I believe that was his t-shirt meaning it was his Travis Alexander's, not meant for it to be her t-shirt . I believe that she lied about the slut and whore name calling. As she has admitted she knew some of his passwords. The way she lied by texting the woman friend by pretending it was him she could have done the same regarding the name calling, and staged the email pretending it was from him but it is her all along who wrote it. He is human and we all are not perfect sometimes it is difficult and we all struggle when it comes to temptation...our weakness becomes much more powerful. She has admitted killing him, she has more lies on top of lies on top of lies. She will never get away with murder...mark my words...she will be convicted and justice will be served...

Anonymous said...

Douchebag- if you read further into Travis Alexander's life you will find out that shirt she claims brands her as his that reads "Travis Alexander's" actually is a promotion shirt that also reads " being better blog" on the back!!! She is such a Hippocratical liar the bitch got your dumbass thinking everything she said is true!!!
Typical fucktards always believe the guilty!!

Anonymous said...

Your ugly ass is so dumb!!

Anonymous said...

Yes, I agree, the tee shirt could have been Travis Alexander's tee shirt with the words "Travis Alexander's" interpreted as a funny tee shirt, perhaps, or Jodi could have had that tee shirt made and now the Defense is portraying Travis as being arrogant and possessive.

Anonymous said...

The vulgar person who used profanity and misread...or misinterpreted the comment about the shirt should perhaps take a lesson from Travis and be kinder...

cindi84 said...

I agree. This is all very sad and he sounds like he was a very intelligent and successful person. To me sounds like he was looking for more in his life...in his companion and it wasn't her and she didn't want to accept that. So sickening and so sad. I wonder if his blogs and her comments and such will come into the trial.

cindi84 said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

The overall impression I got when I read this blog, aside of everything else we know about him from the trial, is that it came from a very arrogant person who falsely created an image of humility.

Everyone defending his ethics here, simply because he was a murder victim, obviously didn't know him very well at all.

Travis Alexander was no more a Saint than Jodi.

Anonymous said...

"The vulgar person who used profanity and misread...or misinterpreted the comment about the shirt should perhaps take a lesson from Travis and be kinder..."

You must mean as kind as Travis was to everyone but his sexual conquest. Jodi was the one person who he was most intimate with, and to whom he displayed his real self...the liar, the user and abuser. He completely took advantage of her, and yet everyone else covers his shameless acts as succumbing to "temptation" and mere "weaknesses".

Yet, he repeatedly indulged in his sexual escapades with selfishness. He was cold, calculating and wicked. Sound familiar? And, then the tables were turned in a way that put an end to his torment of his victim, and prevented him from harming anyone else. Then you guys want to place this hypocrite on a pedestal.

You didn't know the real him at all. So do what you do best and pray into thin air, because you're hardly convincing in your support of this loser!!!

Anonymous said...

This blog is called "Being Better"? Huh...he didn't quite make it, did he?

Anonymous said...

After reading everyone's comments I'm disgusted! Travis Alexander was no different than any other man! The only thing bad that can be said about him was yes he was a pig, (like most men), but that was no reason for her to brutally murder him! I agree that the way he treated her was wrong but still really? Murder? I do not believe it was self defense! After everything I have heard and read, she was just pissed that he didnt want to marry her.

Shawntika Stennis said...

Thank you for this Rest in Paradise Travis you deserve it!!!

Anonymous said...

I know!! I hate ignorant people like this...thank god this piece of crap isnt on the jury..ughhhh

Anonymous said...

U disgust me...we all claim to be one religion or another and we allllllllll still with are beliefs and are religion do not follow the bible to the t and we alllllll commit sins...unless u follow the bible and u never make mistakes u need to shut the hell up.....i have had a man lead me on as thousandssssss of other woman have n yet sustained from stabbing them 27to times, slashing there throat and shooting them in the head.

Anonymous said...

Something is missing...what if there was someone else involved? What if you where set up to the extreme & you had no way of proving what you didn't do? Would you give in & say you did? People would rip you apart regardless. What if Travis' stalker was another man. A man Jodi may have been seeing....maybe he found out about Jodi & Travis's sexual relationship? Maybe Jodi was afraid of this man (leading her to cary protection, hence the gun) What if he followed her to Travis' house, forced them to take sexual pictures, let Jodi go & killed Travis?? Why the HELL would you leave a camera, with a memory card in the washer??? Why wouldn't you take it with you and destroy the crap out of it? Anyone else find it odd that noone did laundry for 5 days? Whoever left the camera there WANTED someone to see those pictures. I don't know, but something just doesn't seem right.

Anonymous said...

Someone not only jealous of their sexual relationship, but maybe jealous of his success? His social skills & popularity.

Anonymous said...

Where where the roomates the night of murder anyway? His roomie seems like a CREEP & they seemed ridiculously calm on the 911 call. I would have been freaking the eff out!

Anonymous said...

Jodi was a stalker as much as Travis was bisexual.

Those are some wild theories.

Perhaps he was leading a triple life and having trysts with another man and keeping it secret from EVERYONE, including Jodi and the church. He was "deviant" after all. Perhaps another man killed him in a jealous rage.

Anonymous said...

"I know!! I hate ignorant people like this...thank god this piece of crap isnt on the jury..ughhhh"

Good, because I hate arrogant people like you who think you know all, because you don't.

If I were on the jury, I'd convict, and I'd do it big with either Life without Parole, or the DP. But at that point I would think both Travis and Jodi got what they deserved.

So take your menstrual rag out of your mouth and STFU!!!!

Anonymous said...

"U disgust me...we all claim to be one religion or another and we allllllllll still with are beliefs and are religion do not follow the bible to the t and we alllllll commit sins...unless u follow the bible and u never make mistakes u need to shut the hell up....."

Actually, we don't all claim to follow a religion, and some of us rely on knowledge and not belief.

What Travis was doing was not a mistake. A mistake is something you do not intend to do, and once you identify and learn your transgression, you definitely don't repeat it over and over again, hiding it in secrecy. The fact that he tried to sell his BS to Jodi that ORAL AND ANAL SEX ISN'T AS SINFUL AS VAGINAL SEX is clearly manipulative and controlling, but pathetic to those who know better.

I don't care if this guy was having premarital sex because it was consensual and not against the law, but I absolutely take issue with his hypocrisy. Duh! His hypocrisy was not a mistake. It was intentional and he would've been "Better" if he just admitted that he didn't agree with the virtue of being chaste before marriage. He should have been HONEST.

So, I'm glad I disgust you. The feeling is mutual. I'm sick of people like you who claim a belief in something you deem as moral and then act against that definition of morality with the expectation of "forgiveness". All religions are infectious agencies of disorder and destruction, and Mormonism is only slightly crazier than the rest.

I'll only "shut the hell up" once you do, because as long as you keep talking nonsense, someone of a rational mind will be there to challenge you, though your argument is far below par.

Anonymous said...

I'm kind of assuming, by the way most of you are commenting, that you don't know the actual definition of hypocrisy. So, here it is:

"Hypocrisy is the state of promoting or administering virtues, moral or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that one does not actually have and is also guilty of violating.[1] Hypocrisy often involves the deception of others and thus can be considered a kind of lie." Wikipedia

"A feigning to be what one is not or to believe what one does not; especially: the false assumption of an appearance of virtue or religion." Merriam-Webster

As you can see, hypocrisy is not merely acting against a virtue one promotes, but also the disguise of being virtuous.

So for all of you who are getting your underwear up in bunches over people accusing Travis of being a hypocrite, he was exactly that. There's no way around it, with or without religion.

Anonymous said...

wow

Anonymous said...

Riiight, he was SO terribly abusive she drove hours out of her way to deliberately be abused by him. She is a such a stupid narcissist, a failure as a human and pathetic liar. I fervently pray you are found guilty Jodi! Justice 4 Travis! No one deserves to go out like that, I don't care what they did.

Anonymous said...

He got JUST what he deserved and so will she!

Mandy said...

LISTEN, I told the people who are speaking poorly about Travis and to Travis on his own blog to take it somewhere else becuase this is Travis's blog. His family, his friends and those who cared for him come here.

There are PLENTY of places all over the internet where you can discuss all things Jodi, Religion, Travis's choices and Sex. It is extremely disrespectful, and frankly low to do it here.

So for those who have a problem with me telling you to take it to another place I will say it again, take it to another place.

It would be really terrible if this blog gets taken down all together becuase you people don't know how to have an ounce of respect for the loved ones of a Brutally murdered man.

Want to support Jodi? FINE
Don't like Travis? FINE
Want to go over the case? FINE

Do it some where else for those who are hurting. Especially since a good deal of you keep yelling about topics that you are so poorly informed about (like "inviting Jodi over") that it hurts just to read.

L Connor said...

Rest in peace Travis And apologies from those who won't apologize for being completely disrespectful. Ill do it for you. I'm sorry for your loss he seems like a very inspiring man. Peace be with you

Anonymous said...

I am deeply touched by the loss of this young life. Whatever your opinions are please respect that this man's family only has these words from a loved one to hold onto - please don't disrespect them or yourselves by your negativity. It's not the forum for it. Any loss of life is a crime. Hate is just ignorance. Everyone makes mistakes and some pay a much greater price in the end.

RIP Travis - you seemed like a wonderful young man who would have achieved greatness. You will not be forgotten.

Anonymous said...

People are going to post on her as long as it's permitted.

Anonymous said...

Yep my point exactly: crazy ass people out there..hahahaha

Anonymous said...

He got just what he deserved huh? Wow. I cannot think of one thing a person can do to deserve such an ugly brutal slaying. Only a crazy person would think that is an ok punishment for what he allegedly did. But apparently there are more of u loose screws out there than I imagined. Glad I don't know you just as glad as I am I do not know her. Creepy world out there

Anonymous said...

And, I'm glad no one can say I'm guilty of hypocritical behavior like many of you fantasy-laden Mormons...Christians...Catholics...Buddhists, etc.

Anonymous said...

Terribly sad situation-but if they had not been leading double lives-if his religion meant as much to him as he claimed-he would still be alive. I'm not blaming him-obviously being a religious hypocrite isn't a crime worthy of murder-but if he had not allowed himself to become sexually involved with a woman he would never consider marrying-whether for, as I suspect, based on her race, or for whatever other reasons-she would not have developed her sick attachment to him. Having grown up in Utah County, I know girls who were not 'acceptable' perhaps not 'white and winsome', who were used by good Mormon boys just like this-even given the same reasoning that oral and anal sex were ok, as long as it wasn't vaginal. (Very twisted thinking, but common in the young single LDS community).
Had Travis lived his religion instead of wearing it only when it suited him, he may be married to a nice Mormon girl, with a couple if little kids, and Jodi would be living her life outside jail.
I don't want anyone to think I am defending her-I think she is an amoral creature. But I can see how her frustration at not being good enough to marry, but being good enough to have sex secretly with, could drive her nuts.

Anonymous said...

Prove it!!!! Prove he made her wear that shirt!!

Anonymous said...

He could have called her every damn name in the world , but let me remind you that Jodi Arias is a freaking murderer!!!She admitted it all, so why Lie about the damn GUN??
She is a real piece of work!A superficial, obsessed, nymphomaniac , conniving, lying sexpot, murderer!


GET IT NOW MORON???

Anonymous said...

All I can say is WOW!!!!! Do you REALLY believe Travis was at fault here! She crossed that line, the line that NORMAL, SAIN, human beings don't cross! She's a murderer!!!!

Anonymous said...

It was actually a Promotional t-shirt for his Being Better Blog that he started about his life, thoughts on wanting to be with a woman he wanted to marry , progress in his whole being, a book he was writing about his childhood into adulthood, how he overcame tremendous hardships, and on the back of this t- shirt it Being Better BLOG!!!

GeT IT MoRON??

JODI ARIAS IS A RAGING MURDERER!!!.....ShE ADMITTED SHE Did HORRIfIC THINGS TO TRAVIS and she LIED over and over and over and over and over...she is a huge joke.Her credibility is zilch! zER0 TRUTH from her mouth,,,,zerooooooooooooooooooooooo!

Anonymous said...

Travis just felt he wasn't at his best because he wanted to get into shape, lose weight and tone up...so he was doing that and was losing weight after he and Jodi broke up.She new she wasn't a love interest for marriage. He saw how vindictive and evil she was.but yes they were still having sex.This can happen when a woman sneaks into your house at one point and was naked in his bed!!He fell prey to her sexual predatory ways! What a bitch she was to him.she slashed his tires on 2 occasions. Crazy ass bitchbroke into his bank accounts too..why? Cause she is an obsessive witch on a hunt for her ex boyfriends private life.She had no business HACKING his Facebook acct. bank, and other accts she is some really whacked person that belongs in prison for life.How could she be trusted to go out into the public again?She can't be allowed to go back into society to hurt other people.She was insanely jealous and couldn't control her anger that he was not taking her to Cancun, but another woman, not her.but they were over as a romantic relationship!She is a real loser.I think the jury will throw the book at her for her heinous slashing, stabbing, shooting and evil ways she pulled him into the shower...all the trying to clean up the freaking mess she made of him and his room, bathroom, hallway..what is the reason for her taking all those morbid pictures of Travis dead and mutilated and the scene of his blood all over? . She is so sick in the head.She spent time doing this.R

Remember she loves taking pictures of everything she had said in an interview! boooom...that tells me she just had to take pictures of this horrid scene so she could feel powerful.she did what she wanted to do and that was the final, I got you moment!she had to get him back for hurting her lil feelings.she didn't get her way after all that sex and she wasnt going to Cancun after all and she was so pissed off at him.

Those pictures she took of him dead was her trophy.she just had to do it cause she is evil minded.
See what I'm saying here?

Anonymous said...

Oh come on now, Jodi had a brain.She new it was over.She said it was because of breach of trust on both parts..her very own words in an interview for some tv show.get it now .?? She is so evil and vindictive.She is a planner, thinker, and premedatator!

Anonymous said...

Oh you bet she was on his mind like that.She was really freaking him out, enough to confide in friends and his Mentor in his career.

Anonymous said...

Yes I thought of that too.She has her own blog before travis did so I think he might have known she would read it eventually.Of course she read it, she commented on some of it..but not the wife blog..wanting to marry a gold digger blog. He didn't want to really marry the typical definition of a gold digger..it was a metaphor...
the title was meant to entice you into reading it.bHe was smart like that and it meant something totally different than what it says. Read the blog and you'll see for yourself. click the HOME icon at bottom of this page/blog. Their are more pages he wrote there. Get to know a part of Travis that is intelligent, forgiving, sweet and loving.

Anonymous said...

She wasn't worth it and he knew that.She was a liar to him, broke into his accts, slashed his tires2x and followed him on dates.

Anonymous said...

I don't get why she took the gun but not the camera. I get that she's 6 short of a 6 pack.

Anonymous said...

How do you know she isn't lying about that too morons...Lolol..she would kill you all if you'd get in her way, get real!

Anonymous said...

She played with his emotions.She called him and told him she was on her way to Utah to see someone, and he suddenly felt confused...she shows up at his house at 4 am...they slept, woke and had sex, took pics, had sex, he took a shower,she killed...with her dead eyes and soul...she is soulless!!!

Anonymous said...

Very well said!!
AMEN. RIP Travissssssssssssssssss!!! He was sweet guy!RIP

Anonymous said...

He loved people and animals..a heart of GOLD. he would give you the shirt off his back...a good guy.Defense is lying cause Jodi is!!!

RIP Travis Alexander

Anonymous said...

Bravo sister!!! Say it, speak it...the truth, Amen!

Anonymous said...

The following is a very good, mature and balanced comment. Therfore I am reposting it to show that I agree with it and to overcome a bit of the nonsensical babble of someone posting comment after comment only minutes apart as if the rest of us still don't get how much they love Travis and hate Jodi.

"Anonymous said...
Terribly sad situation-but if they had not been leading double lives-if his religion meant as much to him as he claimed-he would still be alive. I'm not blaming him-obviously being a religious hypocrite isn't a crime worthy of murder-but if he had not allowed himself to become sexually involved with a woman he would never consider marrying-whether for, as I suspect, based on her race, or for whatever other reasons-she would not have developed her sick attachment to him. Having grown up in Utah County, I know girls who were not 'acceptable' perhaps not 'white and winsome', who were used by good Mormon boys just like this-even given the same reasoning that oral and anal sex were ok, as long as it wasn't vaginal. (Very twisted thinking, but common in the young single LDS community).
Had Travis lived his religion instead of wearing it only when it suited him, he may be married to a nice Mormon girl, with a couple if little kids, and Jodi would be living her life outside jail.
I don't want anyone to think I am defending her-I think she is an amoral creature. But I can see how her frustration at not being good enough to marry, but being good enough to have sex secretly with, could drive her nuts."

Anonymous said...

Wrong, you haven't been paying attention..you fail.go back to sleep!

Anonymous said...

Agree, but the t-shirt was a promotional shirt that had his new book idea, this blog name on the back of it..so it was to read like this, Travis Alexander's Being Better Blog..boooom that blows your theory out and anyone else that isnt paying attention!

Anonymous said...

"GET IT NOW MORON???"

Just one question...Did you mean "Moron" or "Mormon"? Oh, I guess it doesn't matter since they're the same.

Let me guess...Your definition of a "Moron" is anyone who doesn't agree with you, right? Well, that's immature, and you're doing right to limit these comments online and under Anonymous, though I suppose you can just make up any sorted name as a self identifier.

Don't worry. I won't be the one to call you a "Dumbass idiot" even though that's what I'm thinking, along with many others here.

Anonymous said...

She was maddddddder than a madhadderrrrrrrrrr.... Obsessed , vindictive , crazy , lying, killer!

Anonymous said...

They broke up..she left him, what are you talking about.your not paying attention

Anonymous said...

She was a crazy killer.he wasn't!

Anonymous said...

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AnonymousJanuary 14, 2013 at 5:36 PM
She played with his emotions.She called him and told him she was on her way to Utah to see someone, and he suddenly felt confused...she shows up at his house at 4 am...they slept, woke and had sex, took pics, had sex, he took a shower,she killed...with her dead eyes and soul...she is soulless!!!

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Anonymous said...

She was shocked at how much he fought her..she said he is strong..what a crazy witch!She forgot to take out the memory card because she got scared and forgot her brain.weak person mentally!

Anonymous said...

"U suck at being who u are"

"Douchebag-"

"Typical fucktards"

"U disgust me...we all claim to be one religion or another and we allllllllll"

"U disgust me"

"and we allllllllll still with are beliefs and are religion"

"u need to shut the hell up"

"thousandssssss"

"the line that NORMAL, SAIN, human beings"

"GeT IT MoRON??"

"ShE ADMITTED SHE Did HORRIfIC"

"mouth,,,,zerooooooooooooooooooooooo"

"Travissssssssssssssssss!!!"

Just some stupid quotes from one or more Travis supporters who alternate upper and lower cases, elongate syllables, enjoy elementary school name-calling, are very emotionally unstable and juvenile, and I think someone who is commenting is in love with the dead guy. It sounds like they're suffering from Necrophilia.


Anonymous said...

LOL...Good one!!!

Anonymous said...

AnonymousJanuary 14, 2013 at 6:02 PM
Agree, but the t-shirt was a promotional shirt that had his new book idea, this blog name on the back of it..so it was to read like this, Travis Alexander's Being Better Blog..boooom that blows your theory out and anyone else that isnt paying attention!

Anonymous said...

Omg, this is so funny.

A reporter for the Huffington Post doesn't know how to spell. In the following article, showing nude photos of Jodi, he writes, "Earlier Monday, jurors were shown close up of photos of a pigtailed Arias' breasts, as well as explicit front and rear angles of her gentiles."

"GENTILES?" LOL He must have been reading the Bible just before he started writing, because the word he was going for is GENITALS.

Anonymous said...

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/14/jodi-arias-naked-photos_n_2475746.html

Anonymous said...

I also am afraid of being single forever alone, etc. But to be upset that you aren't 30 and a grandfather is a bit odd. What a sad blog entry. I hope his soul rests in peace.

M'sheArt2 said...

II hope your murderer will be convicted, that the jury will see through her lies and tears and that I hope will allow you to rest in peace, Travis Alexander.

Anonymous said...

"Anonymous said...
Agree, but the t-shirt was a promotional shirt that had his new book idea, this blog name on the back of it..so it was to read like this, Travis Alexander's Being Better Blog..boooom that blows your theory out and anyone else that isnt paying attention!

January 14, 2013 at 6:02 PM"

And you know this...how? I mean, you've seen this exact shirt in person, right? You've read both the front and the back. When did you see this shirt, and her wear it? Because it obviously fits her.

If you're going to make a claim that rebuts another, your claim is weakened without a specific account as to how you know what you know, as well as posting anonymously and not identifying your relationship to Travis and your knowledge of the shirt, and especially by demanding that others prove their claim when you provide no proof of your own.

So...BAM. Substantiate YOUR claim with provable facts and not just an empty assumption.

Anonymous said...

Well, we can't see the back of the t-shirt, can we? Does anyone have a pic of the back?

Besides, didn't Travis begin this blog AFTER he and Jodi broke up? If so, are we to believe he gave her a promotional shirt to wear when they were no longer together, but just getting laid?

Unknown said...

Just because you do not belong to a religious group, does not mean that you, too, are not a hypocrite. Every human is imperfect and I am sure your hypocrisy would become clear to me if your life were tragically taken and attention brought to every last detail of your personality and actions in a murder trial. My mother was killed by an ex, shot 26 times, after she agreed to go out to dinner with him one last time. She went to bid him farewell before moving very, very far away to a safer place away from her stalker. But, stalkers don't understand pity, rejection or even just goodbyes. Like Jodi, they want CONTROL. They will kill to get complete control of the one they love. Like Travis, she was smeared terribly. He got off on temporary insanity for his bloodbath. .much like what poor Travis suffered...torture! But, as her child, I was witness to her sweet and gentle nature, just as Travis' friends were witness to the inspiring light he was. Travis did not die because of sex or because he wasn't a perfect Mormon, but because he loved and he trusted too much. RIP Travis. RIP to all victims of murdering psychopaths. I believe justice for you is coming Travis and it gives me hope.

Anonymous said...

"Unknown said...
Just because you do not belong to a religious group, does not mean that you, too, are not a hypocrite."

Ok...the point that was being made went...right by ya...over your head.

Hypocrisy is not exclusive to religion, however quite dominant among the religious just by the nature of doctrines. You've got your holy book that tells you what's right and wrong (as if your damn conscience can't figure that shit out by yourself) and if you agree wholeheartedly, but just make mistakes along the way, you're forgiven and you keep on trying. But it's an entirely different scenario to pretend to embrace a doctrine or philosophy and then behave contrary to that in deception. Religion fosters this type of deception because people who affirm their faith, but then secretly indulge in their sins (when there's no chance in hell that they actually believe their god is watching them and condoning their actions) have the luxury of that saving grace that religion affords which is the forgiveness of sins. People use forgiveness as their excuse to commit hypocrisy.

But, for the sake of your argument, take an atheist, without any religious structure, but a moral one as defined by the conscience which is innate within all of us. There's not much to hide for an atheist, is there? There's not a fear of judgement from church authority, nor an omnipotently divine presence. If an atheist strongly believes in and promotes healthful, smoke-free living, for example, but then smokes socially, rather than habitually, it is their shortcoming and likely something they prefer to overcome, but they have no reason to hide such behavior because it may or may not be considered part of their moral structure. This is not an example of hypocrisy. So, without the doctrine, there are far fewer situations in which hypocrisy comes into play in one's life.

Religion is just the easiest example of demonstrating hypocrisy because it's far more prevalent among the religious for the reasons I've mentioned above.

Curt-Leann Sowell said...

RIP Travis....Although your life ended far too soon and with such horrific violence, may your words here live on... May your family find peace and comfort in time.

Anonymous said...

Thanks. I assumed most would disagree, so it's nice to read your comment. Thanks for reposting my comment.

Unknown said...

Ah, so I missed my argument, and you, mine. What I meant is not so esoteric as a sophomoric philosophy exercise concerning the downfalls of the religious.Jodi belongs to a small group of the population who do not concern themselves with conscience, guilt, remorse, hypocrisy or any sort of moral trappings. She is a superpredator, a psychopath. I assure you that she did not lie awake at night, fuming about Travis' religious hypocrisy-- or any other hypocrises he might have had. She, instead, fumed, 24/7, because she could not own him. If he had married her, perhaps he would have chatted to an ex-girlfriend in the supermarket, and she, spying as usual, would have killed him savagely then. Everyone said that there were reasons why she did it....as if, due to her clean criminal record or due to Travis' temptation into continuing to have sex with her, she were somehow justified to slay Travis like a barnyard animal.

Due to the legal system, and their pity for a "murder of passion", my mother's stalker got a very light punishment. Like Jodi, he brought a gun and extra ammunition with him to meet my mother, and like Jodi, he made it long and slow (it was outside and three witnesses were hiding) as she bled to death, eventually beheading her after talking to her as he shot off her arms and legs. Both crimes were premeditated. Both were committed by psychopaths whose obsession ended only when their "love" could never belong to anyone else.

So, whether or not your hypocrises are few or rampant, based on your personal moral structure or based upon a religious structure consisting of various and sundry doctrines, would you want to die for them? You cannot easily recognize these stalker-types. They look like your neighbor or even maybe a potential marital partner....and...when you realize they are not what you think, you cannot get rid of them. You tell yourself you once had a relationship with them. You tell youself they aren't so bad..that they can't be dangerous. They are very attractive and magnetic. Perhaps you should give them another chance. You doubt it, but, you give it a try. All the while, they are seething inside because they know you will never choose them--they understand internally how damaged and warped they are--they become angry about everything. And, except when they attack, it is hidden under a soft voice, the voice of innocence, because, they believe they are innocent...it is the world and their love who are guilty.

Travis did not know she was a psychopath. He got ensnared in her fallacious thought patterns. This is not Travis' fault. It is always the fault of the psychopath because they suffer NO constraints. If you ever figure out that you have met one, good luck getting away before they have a plan. Change your name and move.

RIP Travis. I feel justice for you is on its way. I will cheer the day it arrives.

Anonymous said...

That is rude.what is wrong w/ you?

Anonymous said...

RIP TravisJune 4th, 2008 my birthday you were killed and I will honor you ever bday I am alive to see it.

Anonymous said...

To the friends and family of Travis. I'm so sorry to see his own blog desecrated by senseless people and their insensitive commentary. To any educated person, it is plain to see that he was a good man, forging his way through life and religion and trying to spread good will around him. The world lost a wonderful person from the sounds of it and I'm saddened that this blog is being used to harbor such negativity. It seems to go against all that Travis stood for. I hope that my one little comment can help eradicate some of the negativity here and that you find peace in knowing that for most of us watching this trial, it is easy to see what a great soul was lost. God bless you all.

Anonymous said...

This case isnt about if he was a good freakin mormon at all!!!!!!! So he sucked at bein mormon okkk that is so irrelevant n thats all people talk about.

Anonymous said...

"It seems to go against all that Travis stood for."

Travis went against all that he stood for.

Get a clue, you blind dumbasses!

Anonymous said...

Yup u caught us...are paszion about this case and the way we use lower case and big case words must mean we r in love with this man...Guysssss, He figured us OuTttttt!!!

Anonymous said...

You clearly hate people for their opinions. I don't.

However, I do hate people who hate people for their opinions.

Anonymous said...

Wasn't going to comment on this blog, but I feel people need to take a step back and realize NOBODY is perfect. I am religious too and love God with all my heart, and have failed him MANY times, not because Im a bad person or a hypocrite but because Im human. It does NOT mean Im leading a double life. Travis was an amazing man... He had all the qualities a woman could ever want/look for in a man,almost too perfect. Sweet, thoughtful,charismatic, confident,determined,hard working, funny, family oriented, loves God, ambitios,smart,succesful,and financially stable with a beautiful home, reading this blog has left me astounded as to how a 30 year old man could have the wisdom of a 70 year old man,and just to top it off he was so SO handsome too. He once wrote that he loved cooking with his grandma just to create memories! aaahhhhh! what a great guy. Jodi saw this too and obsessed over Travis, she wanted him all to herself. Think about it, have you ever fallen in love with someone that in your eyes was just perfect in every way? Then the relationship ends and you feel that you could never meet someone as perfect as they were, every person you date from there on is in your head being compared to that great person you once loved. Jodi and Travis met in September of 06, and only 2 months later before they were even gf and bf she converts to his religion, that to me sound VERY desperate, as if she was only doing it to impress him. Then she told the lead detective she didnt like calling Travis too much because she wasnt his gf, yet phone records show she called him ten times in the days before the crime, most of these calls he rejected and sent to voicemail. Also she told 48 hours that she had been trying to correct her ways, (meaning keep from having a sexual relationship with Travis) yet she poses naked for pictures, with her legs spread wide open and her anus pointing to the camera, her parts all nicely shaved? does that sound like someone who was trying save herself for marriage? or that was trying correct her ways? Dont think so. She told 48 hours that she was heading over to LA then Utah to meet with a love interest, that she didnt plan to see Travis, yet SHE just happens to call Travis while shes in LA, and thinks "Why not its not too far out of my way" Not too far out of your way?!!!! only many hours. Armed with a knife and gun? get where this is going? Everything she says is a lie. She planned the whole trip, in fact she probably went on that trip with the sole purpose of seeing Travis. Yet acts as if she was lured there by him. In her desperate and obsessive mind this meeting would be make or brake, she would either get back with Travis or kill him. She tried so very hard on that last day with him to win him back... Sex and naked pics with pigtails? the nice mormon girl act didnt work and the naughty sex kitten was her last card. When Travis wanted to change his ways and break off all ties to jodi, she knew right there and then that was the end, he would never love her or marry her.
So she took his life. Btw if you havent seen 48 hours "picture perfect" you def should. In that interview she was asked point blank if she ever felt Travis was only using her for sex, and her answer was " on one or two occasions yes, but then I was using him just as much" she was using him too, her own words. So people please stop saying he used her for sex. She threw herself at him, stalked him jumped on his bed and when he was ending what was left of their "friendship" she killed him. Oh and speaking of hypocrites, she sent an email to a girl Travis was seeing that read "If you let him stay in your

Anonymous said...

bed one more time or even sleep under the same roof as him, you will be giving the appearance of evil," "You are a daughter of God, and you have been a shameful example. Be thou clean, sin no more." funny, cosidering she sent a text telling Travis she wanted to give him a warm mouth hug, and grind him loud. Not to mention posing naked on his bed. I know this has been a huge rant, but please what evidence do you have of Travis being abusive and a sexual predator? His only mistake was to give in to jodis sexual advances. Hope justice is served, and that Travis is happy with our Lord. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL :)

Anonymous said...

First of all, Fuck god! Secondly, all of you should be ashamed of yourselves for sticking up for this abuserrrrrrrrr. GeT oFfLiNe NoW!

Did it work? Did I convince you not to comment anymore with my profanity, ridicule and demand?

No...I didn't think so, and neither will your attempts to discourage the comments of those who disagree with your opinions.

If you cannot respect the differing opinions of others, how in the hell do you expect anyone to take you seriously?

Don't bother answering...it's a rhetorical question.

It's an abhorrent shame that many of Travis' supporters are so idiotic and disgusting in their discourse. You say Travis' memory deserves better, but obviously not better than the likes of you.

IF this poor guy's consciousness continues to exist and he is able to witness these goings-ons, he's probably bowing and shaking his head in embarrassment of some of you who are attempting to support him.

Anonymous said...

How do we know made her wear the shirt, told her that anal and oral sex were less sinful?
I don't believe anything on just her word.

Anonymous said...

Listen , she was stalking him for awhile and he would forgive her when she spoke to him in such a sweet, enticing, forgive me voice.She really played Travis at the end, after it was over seriously, she couldn't give him up.Her whole agenda was to marry him but that wasn't going to happen since she started stalking hiim and doing very crazy things , like break into his bank acct...why did she do that ?Why did she forge documents and use his phone to text people mess.and she was completely out of control at that point!!
I sure wish Travis could have pressed charges on her then, instead of forgiving her over Andover.He was a really forgiving man if you ask me.He kept letting her in and the last time he did she new she had to kill him now in her small jealous mind! She entered his home with a stolen 25 caliber she took from her Grandpa of all people! She also had a knife which hasn't been explained. she is an over the top killer!

why did she admit shooting him but won't admit the gun was her Grandpa's? Even her Grandpa is probably wondering about that one!(402) 420-2679

Anonymous said...

Your very wrong.Remember asshole you weren't there ! He was shocked and they were all very upset you creep

Anonymous said...

No do you??

Anonymous said...

Her crime is not justified.

Anonymous said...

Okay, once and for all the thirst was a promotional deal for this blog here for his new book he was starting on this blog..
On the back of the shirt it said, Being Better Blog, on the front said Travis Alexanders

Anonymous said...

The shirt is what I meant to say, sorry for typos!

Anonymous said...

Will the book be published?

Anonymous said...

Thats correct.She is guilty of a heinous crime.WHO KILLS
L
I
K
E THAT? A wacky jealous Jodi Arias that's who.

Anonymous said...

A crime author started one.I think it's out , not sure. I just saw her on In Session show,trueTV

Anonymous said...

Who kills like that?

J O D I ARIaS from Yreka, CaLiFoRnIA

Anonymous said...

Hey, what about Your commenting, calm down! You need help with your temper.please go take a breathe deeply..hold for 8 sec. And exhale.

Anonymous said...

N E V E R. S A Y GODS NAME WITH PROF A N iTY, YOU FOOL, By the way , Travis loved GOD so be respective of that here.

Anonymous said...

She only had cuts on her.she is a liar about the domestic abuse.she is really screwed up.

Anonymous said...

Yep, those cuts were from killing him and he was trying to defend himself.

Anonymous said...

She abused him..he never abused her..it's a
I've man.why are you so crude anyway and sure she told the truth about that? her lies are incessant and she has no control over herself.

Anonymous said...

He didn't lay a hand on her man, so stop lying about him.she is a crazy loser ..duh man.wake up.

Anonymous said...

Very good! I agree!

Anonymous said...

Omg what a liar this guy was. No one even knew about his double life. How could he have believed in the god described in the Bible and the Book of Mormon? I wonder if god ever crossed his mind while he was taking pictures of that nude bitch.

Anonymous said...

Omg again. I just read that the jury had several questions for Det. Flores today that indicate they feel the police had tunnel vision in focusing on Jodi solely as a suspect.

This jury is either dumb or just playing dumb. I hope they don't let her off because she was abused and they feel sorry for her. Murder is murder. There isn't any evidence of physical abuse, especially at the time of the murder. And the Defense has yet to present the emotional abuse, which I think is pretty evident. But if the Defense is resting on Self-Defense, acknowledging that Jodi used weapons to kill Travis, why the hell is the jury asking questions about the whereabouts of his friends during his absence, and whether or not a "boarder" may have been in the home during that 5-day period? Seriously, what the hell are they thinking?

Anonymous said...

I think the detective blew it with this testimony last Thursday about sequencing. He double tracked on his orginal answers. The jury may now not fully believe him either.

This is my only observation in regard to the questions the jury asked today. I don't get it though. I guess the prosecution still has to prove she murdered him even if she confessed?

I guess since her life is at stake the jury is taking this very serious even though from an observer's view it's quite obvious she butchered him and is guilty.

Anonymous said...

Wow!!! All I can say is that I pray that Jody does not have a crazy woman like you on the jury! Then the murderer will walk free! And I sure as hell wouldn't want to be your boyfriend. I have talked to ex boyfriends many times and worn shirts with their names, never would that ever make me upset... Why? Because I have my own mind and I can walk away at any time! And I'm not crazy and a murderer like that freak! Never in a million years did he deserve to be murdered! Haven't you ever heard of a friend with benefits? Appearantly there are more girls like her out there! Pretty scary! To Travis, rest in peace! God bless you!

Anonymous said...

I wish I had no her then too.......I would have accidentally RUN her over in a garbage truck......I no...I no....better then she deservers

Anonymous said...

To January 16, 2013 @ 8:02 who are you talking to?

Anonymous said...

Yeah...who the fuck r u talkin to? lollllll

Amanda said...

Lol. Thats so true running her over isnt harsh enough. Her punishment should be to suffer in the exact same way as travis did.

Jean said...

This man was butchered. And yet she feels the need to kill him again in court. If she had an REAL TRUE defense and better attorneys she could "tell her story" without destroying her victim all over again. As the prosecutor said in court today "she killed him 3 times over". No truer words have been spoken during this trial. Self-defense for whatever the reason does not require one to stab someone TEN TIMES IN THE BACK and stab them TWICE IN THE BACK OF THE HEAD. A naked man with no weapon who has already been stabbed literally in the heart is NO THREAT to anyone. Look at this woman's eyes. There is nothing there. She is dead behind the eyes. Her court demeanor is laughable. She is "expressing" the emotion she thinks others want to see at any given moment. The mousey demeanor and librarian glasses arent fooling anyone. Her interrogation tapes tell you all you need to know about her. Kill again? You bet she will. I think she thought she "needed" to kill him so she could close a chapter of her life since he informed her he had closed the chapter of his life with her in it. Once she kills him she gets relief and gives herself permission to "move on". As she said 45 days after butchering him "Im not crying cuz I just want to move on with my life"... "oh but hey can I see the pictures of my handiwork? How many times was he stabbed? I know I should know since I did it but you gotta understand I was in a rage. She is sickening. Why has the casr taken over 4 years to come to trial? Did her defense stall while practicing which defense wouldnt get them laughed out of court? Just convict and sentence her already. Give this mans family some peace.

Anonymous said...

All this is was and forever will be a most horrific example of how sub human a person will become. This young woman obviously is a dangerous psychopath. I fell like she became frustrated because she could never really measure up to Mr. Alexander's true desires in a life companion. At the end of the day the only way she could in her mind stay "connected" to Mr Alexander was by continuing to have these sexual encounters. Ms. Arias is where she belongs in jail.

Anonymous said...

It is blatantly obvious that Travis Alexander was a motivated, caring, selfless individual. Stringing Jodi Arias along (IF that is what he did) is not a crime, nor is it a death sentence. What Jodi did however, IS (on both counts).

May Travis Rest In Peace...

Anonymous said...

Many say life in prison is the worst kind of punishment and not the death penalty. In fact, more death-row inmates have preferred execution to facing seemingly endless years of appeals. Jodi has said something similar. So, people should wish that she gets life not death.

Anonymous said...

But who are we to jufge this man that is no longer here on Earth to defend himself?? He was human, no one is perfect..she obviously seduced him with sex because as a man (although women have weeknesses to) she knew it's what worked for her....she had powe over him and in the end she proved that -you the evidence is there...such a horrific and hanus murder...even had to take pictures of her accomplishment - she looved taking pictures...she knew Travis didn't see her as marriage material but yet she continued to seduce him and as a fine looking successful viral young man he just couldn't resist that one last time...as for the tshirt...she's and her lawyers have tried to make that into something that it wasn't just her smiling that big toothy grin of hers...from what i have read from Travis himself here and sooo many friends and family support he had a story to tell - grew up hard, felt nerdy throughout school and probably still some insecurities about himself but he was rising up to the top successful, a great motivator, spiritual and always helping others and touched everyone's life he came in contact with...too bad we'll never get to read his book, he will never have that soulmate and have a family of his own, but i truly believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and i truly believe he is in a much better place called Heaven...yes he sinned but we are all sinners eho are we to cast stones...i pray this jury will take their civil obligations seriously and seek justice for Travis and his family and friends...I'm not saying that the death penalty is the right answer i pray i never have to make that kind of decision and I'm sure i would might feel differently if it were my family member but i will leave that up to God when a life shall be taken...but she deserves life in prison with no frills states already allowed her to get her GED you think of we wanted continued education we have to pay our way to better ourselves -that life without parole no retrials....to Travis's family and friends sorry for your loss and praying for you during this painful trial....RIP Travis Alexander <3

Anonymous said...

Suck my dick

Anonymous said...

^you make it seem like travis came back to life.

Anne said...

think Travis was a Positive and Inspiring person; he met a psycho who murdered him in cold blood. This blog does not sound like he was controlling, merely ambitious.

Not one other person has come forward to say he had a bad side, but countless people have come forward to say what a truly wonderful human being he was. Including three other women he had dated but not had sex with.

Lord knows women have been used for casual sex while hoping to win a guy over and not succeeding; but they don't end up killing the guy when he does find someone else!

Jodi lies so much, how can you believe her that he wanted her to come over? how do you know she didn't text herself in the past from his phone as a set up since she had all his passwords, she could also email herself from his account. She was obviously lying on 48 hours that they had a trip planned to the three places in CA she mentioned, as you can see photos on her myspace that they had indeed already taken that trip!

She admitted in her first TV interview that she knew what the relationship had become and that she used him just as much. SHE is the one that could not stay away. She also was pursuing other men that have come forward, Ryan who testified in the trial, and Abe. Abe implied on Dr. Drew he was interested in her for the same reason. After their first date, he was able to determine she was wearing thong underwear while they were in the parking lot making out. She had told him Travis and she were only friends.

Jodi was 'grinding' on Ryan less than 24 hours after killing Travis. She was/is the person 100%at fault in the heinous premeditated murder of an innocent man.

It is so unnecessary and cruel to trash talk a dead man that by all accounts from everyone that knew him was a fine young man, loved and admired.

Anonymous said...

^We all have a sin nature and fall short. However, the mere fact that Travis was having porno-type sex more than repeatedly while giving the appearance of an upright faith following individual speaks for itself. No one can dispute his sexual behaviors. Pictures speak a thousand words. He had some anti-social psychopathic personality qualities himself. Maybe that is why he attracted Jodi. If you don't know what I'm talking about read the book "without conscience" by Robert D. Hare, PhD. Really smart psychopathic personalities are out there including doctors, lawyers, highly successful overachievers are included. In fact, Bill Clinton is deemed to have an antisocial personality profile. Maintaining a unbelievable public persona while hiding deep dark tendancies to treat women as sexual objects only (i.e. disregard for their feelings, etc.). They say only the stupid psychopaths end up in jail (i.e. Jodi). Did he deserve to die? No. Was he the example people thought he was? Hell no but had the same psychopathic tendancies as Jodi. He just knew how to walk the line so close without going over it like she did.

Anonymous said...

Bad side? No? Oh, that's right. He was a "Saint". Give me a break. Some of you are arguing that he was your average guy with typical faults, and then some of you are describing him as being so saintly.

You can't have it both ways. The truth is he was just an average guy with an ambition, if that's what you want to call it, to make money. Just like anyone else in this world who understands the importance of money in our society, he chose the path with maximum results and least resistance. He was employed by a pyramid company where the top profits off of the bottom. Nothing unusual here. But to say he wanted to serve others? Give me a break, would ya? He wanted to serve himself and his own interests, and it is doubtful he actually even believed in God. It appears as though he just led people to believe he was a "30 year-old virgin", saving himself for marriage in the temple. In fact, after pre-marital sex, he would have to oblige steps of repentance through his bishop and stake president in order to be considered for marriage in the temple. It is obvious he had no desire to let anyone know about his sexual indulgences, and if Jodi hadn't done him in, he'd still be living a lie, looking for a virgin wife to marry in the temple, while he kept his dirty little secret all to himself for as long as he could.

He wasn't a saint, and all of you who are portraying him to be just that should be ashamed of yourselves. He was an average guy who got hard-ons and wanted pussy.

He didn't deserve to die for it, but he sure as hell didn't deserve to have the blessings of the church.

Get it???

Anonymous said...

"It is so unnecessary and cruel to trash talk a dead man that by all accounts from everyone that knew him was a fine young man, loved and admired."

You still don't get it, do ya? He was admired for being something he wasn't. He was admired for being virtuous. It was all a lie.

You're just honoring a deceased liar. If he were the one who committed premediated murder, you would not admire any of his lies.

Jodi doesn't deserve to be honored, but neither does Travis.

Anonymous said...

This is pathetic to attack him. We don't know that he wasn't working with the Bishop. That's personal. We all sin. My prayers to the family. I hope he receives blessings in eternity. I had a neighbor very much like Jodi....very scary

Anonymous said...

Travis had his whole bright life ahead of him and it was snuffed out by this monster. It is pathetic that in death he is not able to defend himself against the abuse he is taking not just from Jodi, but from unvirtuous strangers.

As far as I am concerned, Travis was virtuous and was in progress and process of being the person, trying to be the person consistent with his beliefs. That he had temptations and vulnerabilities is human, but he was trying to move on.

While I am not religious, I respect others' beliefs and I believe it is evident that he knew Jodi was a mistake and was trying to move on. It's so unfair as so many of us make mistakenly trust, and are not mortally wounded for such. I believe that Jodi was about as 'invited' a guest, as any unwelcome former friend ringing the doorbell at 4am... or the lost brother asking for 20 bucks.

Condolences to Travis' friends and family.. that you know that Travis has inspired many with his enthusiasm and love for life. I hope he gets the justice he deserved and you find comfort and joy in remembering Travis.

Anonymous said...

I think it would be proper for me to say that she is a murderous, a liar, a criminal, heinous, cold blooded, cold hearted, wicked, odious, hideous, conniving, obsessive, calculative, manipulative, empty and on and on. I may be digging deep, "1000 Places To See Before You Die" might have triggered something. She has this blog on her MySpace with photos of places Travis and her had visited. She was not only jealous of Travis going and sharing Cancun with someone else...but this might have been the last thing that put her over the edge.

Anonymous said...

To January 20, 2013 @ 11:40 p.m.

In regard to you saying this: "Jodi was about as 'invited' a guest, as any unwelcome former friend ringing the doorbell at 4am... or the lost brother asking for 20 bucks."

The difference being that in any of those situations you don't have sex all night and day and take porno pictures with those individuals.

Travis had many options. He could have bolted up the doggy door, changed the locks, called 911 when she arrived, or sat her down in the living room and had a long talk about how to move on, etc. He didn't come close to doing any of these options.

Anonymous said...

I believe he was confused about his feelings toward Jodi.Isnt this obvious!? Oh to the person above this,, they didn't have sex all night and day.They had sex two times the next day, according to Jodi anyway.

Anonymous said...

Oh ok and your a person without a brain, right? She already admitted killing him you idiot savant!!.......never cease to amaze me are those that have no idea what's going on at all, whatsoever!

Anonymous said...

Yes that's what Mormons kind of put on you if your that age and not settled down yet.

Anonymous said...

Does anyone even care that maybe his friends and family come on here for comfort from a friend and all they see is all this negativity on this blog? I dont know Travis or any of his friends or family but lets be a little more considerate. And really bashing someone who has passed is really low of the low...it's pretty pathetic!!

Amber G. said...

Rest in peace Travis. You are missed.

Anonymous said...

I hope and pray that the jury will be able to discern from the testimonies of what is true or false. May we all pray for the same.

Anonymous said...

"And really bashing someone who has passed is really low of the low...it's pretty pathetic!!"

Then make sure your advice is balanced toward anyone being negative, because as you can read, it's not just those who don't admire Travis for his role in his own demise, but it's those haters on here who are fighting anyone with an opinion they find objectionable.

I've read some sincere, sympathetic posts in favor of Travis that have done much more to make me back off then the hormonal immature juveniles who attack everyone else, call names and behave like 3rd graders on the playground. For these types, though I fret to quote the Old Testament, "An eye for an eye; a tooth for a tooth."

Once the haters and bashers of those who are critical of Travis' behavior toward Jodi cease their onslaught of insults...you will likely find that others will demonstrate respect as well.

Until then, here comes some more shit in my next post in response to a real jerk...

Anonymous said...

*Correction: than, not then

I notice I make errors more as a result of constantly reading the errors of others online.

Anonymous said...

"Oh ok and your a person without a brain, right? She already admitted killing him you idiot savant!!.......never cease to amaze me are those that have no idea what's going on at all, whatsoever!"

Here's a good example.

Without a brain? Oh my.
Idiot Savant? And, you received your doctorate in Psychology from where, now?
No idea...whatsoever? How the fuck old are you, you little twit? If you ARE an adult, then you're probably an uneducated piece of ghetto trash.

If you can't do better than your perpetually stupid comments, then shut the fuck up! Get off this blog, because you sure aren't helping Travis' cause of justice!!!

Anonymous said...

Wow this kid was something special, if anything they should make a book out of his blogs, I'm motivated just by reading this! Jodi is irelevant at this point to me, she will stand before GOD eventually but for now let's turn this blog into a motivational book he will help other as he wished to do!!

Anonymous said...

I believe that Jodi Arias was emotionaly abused by YOU Travis. I think you drove this woman over the edge, by using her for sex and only for sex. You were living a lie. Lying to yourself, Jodi, your friends, your church, your family. I do not believe that you threatened her life the day that she murdered you. I do believe that something happened that day to cause Jodi to snap. Do I think it was self defense? No, I do not. I do believe that somewhere in Jodi's abused and warped mind, she felt it was a matter of self preservation in a sense though. Do I think Jodi Arias is innocent....No. Do I think you, Travis, were totally innocent in the matter,absolutely not. Such a sad case for everyone involved.

Anonymous said...

Well written. I believe YOU Travis were a special soul. I feel it in your writing. I belive you had a MEANINGFULL life. I have learned to endure to the end from YOU. Trying everyday to bring a BETTER me also to the table. Turning negatives changes into positive outcomes. May you soul rest and may we find JUSTICE soon. Love YOU Mr. Travis Alexander.

Anonymous said...

YEAH Duh JA WANTED EVERYONE TO SEE THE PICTURES AND FIND OUT THE DIRTY LIL SECRETS TO JEPERDISE or RUIN HIS SUCCESS AND HARDWORK!!! R.I.P TRAVIS YOU WERE A WONDERFUL KIND HEARTED LOVING MAN.

Anonymous said...

Well he let her in the house at 4 am , so I would say he knew she was coming over there to have sex together.

Anonymous said...

If only he had listened to himself about her. I think he was treating her poorly because he couldn't respect her or himself anymore because they were breaking barriers and religious beliefs. They were lusting not loving. They both played their sick roles in their sick relations they had demoralized into. They both had weaknesses that became so overwhelming for them both. Sex, lies and photographs say it all here. She killed him, but why though? Seems to me she was obsessed and he was weakened by his sexual desires.

Anonymous said...

It's not ALL negative...CALM DOWN PEOPLE...BREATHE, EXHALE AND BREATHE AGAIN BEFORE YOU SPEAK OUT HERE. DON'T BE ANGRY, BE HELPFUL AND OR TRUTH TELLING....TRAVIS KNOWS WHAT HE DID OR DIDN'T DO.LETS JUST STICK TO THE FACTS THAT WE DO KNOW ARE TRUE, OK.?
GOD HAS ALREADY DEALT WITH TRAVIS BECAUSE HE DIED.WHEN WE ALL DIE WE WILL DO THE SAME, STAND BEFORE GOD FOR OUR LIFE ACTIONS.

ENOUGH ALREADY.LOVE IS WHAT MAKES THE WORLD CONTINUE ON,NOT HATE AND ANGER.

WE ALL will have to stand before our creator one day and face the music...yes, even you and me.
WE WILL ALL HAVE TO SEE THE PAIN WE HAVE BROUGHT TO OTHER PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES WHILE WE WERE ON THIS EARTH.
NOONE IS PERFECT...SO STOP JUDGING YOUR LOVED ONES AND FRIENDS AND ENEMIES...AND TRAVIS AND JODI....

THEY KNOW WHAT THEY DID,LET THEM DEAL WITH IT. TRAVIS' SOUL CARRIES ON, SO DOES ALL THE PEOPLE YOU EVER KNEW THAT DIED AND LEFT THIS WORLD. THEY HAVE MORE ABILITIES THAN WE ARE EVEN ABLE TO COMPREHEND. TRAVIS IS WAY BETTER OFF THEN HE EVER WAS HERE IN THIS WORLD WE THINK IS SO GREAT.WHERE HE IS, IT'S MORE AWESOME AND INCREDIBLE THEN YOU COULD EVEN IMAGINE IN YOUR MINDS EYE....OR IMAGINATION!

REST IN PEACE WE SAY TO THE DEAD...WHY? THEY ARE NOT RESTING...THEY ARE MORE ALIVE THAN YOU AND ME PUT TOGETHER.

MORE THAN LIKELY TRAVIS HAS ALREADY FORGIVEN JODI FROM WHERE HE IS AT, IN THE SPIRIT REALM.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL IN YOUR LIFE AND MAY YOU HAVE PEACE OF MIND.

Anonymous said...

If only he had listened to himself! He knew their relationship wasn't good and they both were being bad to each other!

Anonymous said...

He played a dangerous game with himself, her and God. So did she! Then she couldn't trust him, nor him of her. She snapped mentally and lost control of her anger towards him. Back to court.live now..tty

Cierra said...

I wish i would have known you....you deserved better...no one i mean no one should have took your life that way...i truly believe justice will be served.

Anonymous said...

His soul is probably looking at this mess his life became and thinking what a fool for sex he was!!! None of us know what exactly went on in his mind that day he let her in.Well, we know he was thinking of sex but why was he so caught up into this whole dangerous game with Jodi??

Didn't he believe in himself enough to walk away from her once and for all? No , he did not. He let his carnal desires control him. If only he had rejected her one more time and if she retaliated again with more stalking then he could have filed a police report. He also could have had a judge make her stay away from him. I just feel as if he just ignored his real thoughts about how crazy her behavior had become.That early morning he let her in was a huge judgement blunder and it teaches us all to listen to our inner voice when it comes to dangerous people, places or things.

I myself have been stalked, chased, and followed by strange people that could have hurt me if I had not listened to my inner voice telling me to run, drive fast and get away. I was raped, molested and hurt in the young years so I decided in my adult years I would be extremely proactive in a living a safer existence.

Anonymous said...

What is justice to you?

Anonymous said...

I realized it was time to adjust my priorities and date with marriage in mind. Not to ask some one on a date because I planned on marrying them, but to date someone to look for the possibility of marriage with them. This type of dating to me is like a very long job interview and can be exponentially more mentally taxing. Desperately trying to find out if my date has an axe murderer penned up inside of her and knowing she is wondering the same thing about me. That’s usually when I think myself into a panic and start acting weird in consequence to trying so hard to act normal

I find this bit intresting.He didnt deserve to die ...my heart and prayers are with the family..

i do think she was stalking him though and she knew he wasnt going to marry her.I also think he did use her for sex but she was also consenting to it.the whole photo in shower she did that with her last boyfriend and a point i want to make is she is saying she was abused but who is too say he wasnt abused Men do get abused also..Its justher word agaianst a man who cant answer for himself.. he was naked and she said she was abused and fearing for her life...so she stabbed him more then 20 times cut his throat and then shot him..All the time this abusive man was naked with defense wounds on his hands ..she had nothing on her except knifes and gun so too me she was the abuser.
karma isnt kind...
May his family have closure and may his soul rest in peace....
My only concern is.. watch out if she does get out of prison the next man she dates ...

RIP

Anonymous said...

Love the writings. Hope the Jury is allowed to read your inner soul thoughts because truly justice must be served in your honor.

Anonymous said...

"MORE THAN LIKELY TRAVIS HAS ALREADY FORGIVEN JODI FROM WHERE HE IS AT, IN THE SPIRIT REALM.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL IN YOUR LIFE AND MAY YOU HAVE PEACE OF MIND."

STOP yelling, bitch!

Anonymous said...

Jodi was fully clothed when the assault on Travis took place. This tells me that she was preparing to leave, and likely allowed him to believe she had already left. So, he takes a shower, and she returns though he's unware she's taking photos of him in the shower, thus the reason the first set of photos are so poorly shot, blurry and dark. Then she surprises him with the camera for a few shots, then displays the gun and orders him down.
The rest is not a case of self-defense. It's murder.
The premeditation is blatant. The gun, the gascans.
No one believes she will be acquitted. She would rather have the Death Penalty than to have to spend the rest of her life in prison.
I believe she should get Life so she can remember that she took a risk, got caught and will pay with the rest of her life.
It's just not worth it to kill a hypocritcal user like Travis.

Anonymous said...

U saw the pics right? Did u see how he was sitting down on the last pics? Well, I'm positive she had him "pose" sitting down in the shower to put h in a vulnerable position...shot him in the face first, enabling him to fight back + he was sitting down...tho he still got up n hovered over the sink for a bit n that when that Evil slut began the 27 stabbings

Anonymous said...


Travis was one wonderful person. You are a bright light and inspire even after you left this world. You left us the word of God and give hope to never give up on ourselves. Thank You .So sad Jodi took your life because she didn't fit the love you where looking for and didn't want anyone else to have you. God why ?

Anonymous said...

God Bless You Travis...

Jan Campbell said...

He didn't fight back because he was too much of a GENTALMAN! To ever hit a woman. The "3 hole wonder" played that to her advantage. She tried to seduce him with sex, once again, to get him to take her to Cancun. When it didn't work...she killed him. Then she went to Salt Lake to seduce the next man(victim).

Anonymous said...

Being a woman,, we have all gone through breakups and broken hearts. we don't slaughter them because we can not have them. I believe that she fell so hard for him, that she could not bear to be out of his life. This was a.well planned, thought out massacre. She, attacked Travis in the shower when his guard was down, she was dressed so she could hide the knife. she needs to pay for taking a life...you can't always get what you want. RIP Travis.

Anonymous said...

The law does not work that way. If she does not get the death penility, the other charge will be self defense, which means she will be a free woman, by the time.she is 40. I pray to God that she gets the death penility. The evidence is overwhelming and hope the jury can see past all of the other nonsense. RIP. Travis, Sorry that you have had your life so brutally interuppted.

Anonymous said...

Seems to me JA would have a better defense by alleging that TA got angry when she threatened to expose their sexual relationship to his church elders. I think she deserves to get the death penalty, but this defense would explain why he got angry w/ her and would be more believable than her dropping his camera. Lamest defense ever. Everyone, including JA, already knew that he rejected her as marriage material. He treated her like the booty call that she was. So I can imagine that she may have made that threat out of spite knowing that she would likely never be with him again.

Anonymous said...

They were both emotionally damaged and unstable. This is what you get when you put together a guy who is allergic to commitment, not quite done sleeping around and an overly dependent, insecure, obsessed girl. If for some unfortunate reason they would have gotten married we would be witnessing a trial against Travis.

Anonymous said...

Someone needs to tell the prosecutor about the back of that t-shirt, if they haven't already.

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Anonymous said...

Travis Alexander was a pig and a hippocrit. Mormans are a totally fucked up bunch. One less morman in the world to bad so sad. Not

Anonymous said...

"The law does not work that way. If she does not get the death penility, the other charge will be self defense, which means she will be a free woman, by the time.she is 40."

What the fuck are you talking about? Since when does the law not sentence people to Life Without the Possiblity of Parole?

And, "penility"? Come on, are you serious???? Try "penalty".

Anonymous said...

he started his blog "Sunday, May 18, 2008" she started her's
"Saturday, May 10, 2008"

whats that tell you??

its all fun "& headgames" till someone gets killed (just my 2 cents)

An Historical Lady said...

I have been following the trial of Jodi Arias, and came across this blog after hearing a mention of it somewhere. Too bad the jury doesn't read this.
This is only my take, but I think Travis was a good and well intentioned person. I think he was perhaps immature, and made some serious mistakes, but then, who hasn't? An abuser?? I sincerely doubt that, and find it sickening that Jodi and her defense team are trying to lie about a dead man who cannot now defend himself.
I think Travis knew that his relationship with Miss Arias was unhealthy, not based on mutual core values, and was not going to go anywhere good.
I think Travis made a huge error in judgement when he slept with Jodi on his final day, and I suspect that he had remorse and felt awful afterwards---and none too proud of himself. I think he probably tried to tell Jodi that as nicely as he could.
It is all such a waste. He certainly didn't deserve to die. I think he had been at least trying to surround himself with a better class of woman, and overcome some of his own weaknesses.
This is all so sad.
I just pray that Jodi Arias is found guilty and never sees the outside world again, and that Travis' family finds some small measure of solace...

Anonymous said...

http://www.afafa.org/AFAFA_Methods_of_Attack.htm#Click_Messaging


I'm a stalking "target"...I know what I see ...

Anonymous said...

a few things dont make sense ....In the picture of travis in the shower he looks scared,also in another one is there blood on his neck? is there any possabilty she had drugged him before he showered.. this guy was naked and in the shower.....He may of been the one abused it happens to guys also not just women....the gun she used was her grandmothers who had reported it stolen so isnt that premeditated....she had access to all his accounts also why wasnt his brought up..I think she was angry as she knew hewas going on vacation with another woman and thats why she did it....The phone sex what does it matter a lot of people have phone sex it is a free card to murder someone....also if she had killed him in the shower then dragged his body into the bedroom and bathroom how is it possable for her to do this alone....I think it is sad it is easy to blame someone who doesnt have a voice anymore....also if she does which i hope she doesnt get away with this watch out for the next guy she gets obssessed with......

Anonymous said...

sorry meant it is not a free card to murder someone

Anonymous said...

who said they had sex...nothing proved they did being naked doesnt mean they had sex...again is hearsay

An Historical Lady said...

I just had to add a PS after reading the post by anon. who said in the shower photo Travis looked scared. I said to my husband weeks ago when I first saw the picture that he looked kind of sad/resigned---NOT angry at all.

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